so, i listened to "ex"'s friend's radioshow tonight, where he was co-hosting for the evening. they were on the phone with someone else that he's got something going with and that's when it hit me- i don't want him anymore. to hear him speaking like that would have hurt me if i still had feelings for him but instead i was laughing and going "that man must hit that". and on a better note, i talked to "person 1" and some words were said, good ones. so, that's really great. good day for the cat. =D